Hardly benign! By boycotting a store and encouraging others to do so you are potentially affecting other employees and a whole bunch of people who have nothing to do with your domestic situation.
You sound rather defensive. It would be an idea to deal with and process your emotions so that you...
It seems to me that you are putting all your eggs in one basket: by focusing on your neighbour's employer and expecting them to bring her into line.
Apart from anything else (and I'll avoid repeating what others have said) this doesn't seem logical because if, for whatever reason, your...