I hate assumptions prople make in generalities that have little or no bases in fact. Take for instance I had someone today tell me I must not be straight but live an "alternative lifestyle" because I have never been married and I'm older than 30. I know a female firefighter whom has been told she isn't straight either because of her career choice. I've heard it about male hairdressers, female police, any male in an "artsy" job ie any sort of wardrobe/clothing/interior design makeup for tv,movies etc. males elementary/pre-school teacher or male nurse, female pe teachers or coaches. the list literally goes on and on