I always find books much better, more details and expression thru words.Didn't read the book but enjoyed the movie.
Tho this movie was missing much of said details, it conveyed the crux of the story very well.
I've turned into a bit of a luddite in the past several years.I'm sorry you aren't interested in video chatting with your family, I guess you aren't as close as you might be.
The family dynamic is treacherous for me, an old, complex, and painful past has left scars I prefer to avoid revisiting....the others are dismissive and/or oblivious of the issues.
Holiday gatherings always were minefields and triggers, still are I guess.