Calling ALL Dog Fosters and Non Fosters Alike! Fostering Dogs - Tips, Recommendations, and Places

I've been fostering dogs on and off for about 20 years. Here are some tips:
  • consider what you won't tolerate in a dog and be very clear with the organization this will end in the foster being returned ASAP. My No's are animal aggression and child aggression. Do not keep this dog thinking you can work through it because you will more than likely burnout and return the dog anyway after a lot of struggling.
  • realize a foster dog can take 30-60 days to fully decompression and show their true behaviors; it can be very frustrating that your formally sweet and quiet foster is suddenly showing its true colors if you're not expecting it. Some dogs don't do this but most do.
  • choose the organization you work with VERY CAREFULLY. They should vet you and you should vet them. A lot of rescues and shelters are wild wild west, and sometimes they will do shady things to unload a problem dog on someone else hoping your emotions will stick you with the dog.
  • you said 'large' - I would be extremely careful adding an unknown large dog in with chickens and small, elderly dogs. Avoid breeds that are known for animal aggression, be clear with the organization you have other animals at home and cannot take any dog that shows aggression towards other animals.
  • set up a crate and/or x-pen that is the dog's space - keep them in there for a few days while everyone gets used to each other and let the dog know it has a safe space to go if it gets overwhelmed. Set the dog up to make good choices and slowly give more freedom as the dog shows it is comfortable. I usually do crate/pen -> leash -> supervised free range -> free range. Some dogs, especially adults who are already trained, just breeze through. Other dogs like puppies or untrained adults need more direct supervision.
  • be liberal with the treats - food is a fast way to build trust and make friends LOL High value treats like hot dogs and cheese in small amounts are good to get them to learn their name and to come.
I enjoy fostering because I find it extremely rewarding! I've fostered and found great new homes for dozens of dogs. I get updates on the little guys living their best life years after the adoption. It is great. But I've seen a lot of people burnout or fill up with "foster fails." A lot of people go in with good intentions then get overwhelmed because they're given "too much dog" or an inappropriate fit for their home for their first foster. There's a reason organizations are constantly in need of new fosters.

Think about your boundaries in advance and be very clear on what you can handle when choosing a dog. For your first foster, I would recommend a trained adult dog that has previously lived in a home and was just unlucky enough to land in a shelter. They exist and they often get looked over for puppies or young dogs. I'd avoid young male dogs (9 months-2 years old) - this is when they hit puberty and are dumped for a whole host of unpleasant behaviors such as aggression, marking, humping, extreme fear reactions, etc. If you don't have the experience/confidence/patience to deal with that, I'd skip it. I'd steer away from puppies because they require a lot of care and will probably annoy and/or accidentally hurt your small older dogs or other pets. I'd also avoid bully mixes ("pitbulls") - they are notorious for animal aggression and could put your smaller dogs at high risk. Same with heelers and any other dog with a high drive.

Also understand the dog will probably not be housebroke or leash trained and it'd be good to brush up on your training knowledge. If you have the time and money, a cheap training course at petco or petsmart is great for learning foundational dog training skills you can use for all future dogs.

It is great you're looking into fostering and asking for advice! It can be a lot of fun and these dogs do desperately need to be in home settings learning to be good pets or just chill away from the stress of the shelter. Good luck.
 
Does fostering give you the option to call dibs on one if you fall in love and your heart says "this one is mine"?

My Very Good Dog, Luna, was adopted out of foster care. She's had three "forever" homes after her initial surrender and each brought her back within the 30 day takeback period, and then she went to foster as a last resort before being killed. She had a warning on her file in large red letters- "NO OTHER PETS, NO CHILDREN" but my wife brought her home anyway even though we have a million chickens and turkeys plus my wife's beagle.

Luna was very stoic around people- she'd stand and let you open a door or drawer into her without moving, and you'd have to physically push her aside. She was aggressive with the beagle- she wasn't allowed to exit or enter a room before Luna, and she wasn't allowed to eat before Luna started to eat. Not food aggressive, just "me first".

After about six months, Luna became her real self. She's very affectionate, gets along great with the beagle to the point that she allows the beagle to grab her by the throat and roll her over onto her back in order for the beagle to savage her throat. She's still got an insanely high prey drive but pretty much ignores the chickens- as long as she knows we're watching. Her greatest joy is to trot along next to the tractor when I shred the field because she gets to catch and kill field rats as they dart out from in front of the shredder.

Luna is the biggest couch cuddle bug on the planet, she loves to crawl into the couch and lay her head on my thigh as I'm reading.

She's great in public and I cannot imagine why she got a "no children" warning. There was nothing in her file and her foster family said they had no idea what that was about. She loves going to Cabela's and the feed store because she gets to love on people and get pets from strangers.

I'm happy that my wife ignored me when I said please please please don't get another dog without me going along.
 

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Tiny dogs with possible reactive large dog, no bueno.
Ok, though most of the time when fostering, you will fill out an application, including how many pets you have, where they live, etc. and they won’t match you with a dog that won’t be a good fit.
Parakeets with dog you have zero history on, no bueno.
I can understand this one, though the cage is high up.
Chickens with a large dog you have no history on and no formal 4 sided wooden fence, not great.
I know it’s not a solid wood fence, but the chickens are in a pretty secure run, and the rest of the yard is open, so the dog would either be on the deck/large dog run that attaches to it, or it’d be on leash
Hedgehog with a large dog where both parties could be seriously injured, super not great.
I agree, although Hedgie (the Hedgehog) is just living temporarily at home, until she can go back and live with my brother.
There are wayyyyyy too nay opportunities for things to go horribly wrong.

one wrong move, one open door, and you would never forgive yourself. Trust me, you blame yourself for the rest of your life.
I understand the risks-and I do have problems with making mistakes (self harm, self hate, etc) but I also want to be able to not be so overcome with worry as to not do opportunities that would mean a lot to me.

Thanks for your input, though.
 
I've been fostering dogs on and off for about 20 years. Here are some tips:
  • consider what you won't tolerate in a dog and be very clear with the organization this will end in the foster being returned ASAP. My No's are animal aggression and child aggression. Do not keep this dog thinking you can work through it because you will more than likely burnout and return the dog anyway after a lot of struggling.
  • realize a foster dog can take 30-60 days to fully decompression and show their true behaviors; it can be very frustrating that your formally sweet and quiet foster is suddenly showing its true colors if you're not expecting it. Some dogs don't do this but most do.
  • choose the organization you work with VERY CAREFULLY. They should vet you and you should vet them. A lot of rescues and shelters are wild wild west, and sometimes they will do shady things to unload a problem dog on someone else hoping your emotions will stick you with the dog.
  • you said 'large' - I would be extremely careful adding an unknown large dog in with chickens and small, elderly dogs. Avoid breeds that are known for animal aggression, be clear with the organization you have other animals at home and cannot take any dog that shows aggression towards other animals.
  • set up a crate and/or x-pen that is the dog's space - keep them in there for a few days while everyone gets used to each other and let the dog know it has a safe space to go if it gets overwhelmed. Set the dog up to make good choices and slowly give more freedom as the dog shows it is comfortable. I usually do crate/pen -> leash -> supervised free range -> free range. Some dogs, especially adults who are already trained, just breeze through. Other dogs like puppies or untrained adults need more direct supervision.
  • be liberal with the treats - food is a fast way to build trust and make friends LOL High value treats like hot dogs and cheese in small amounts are good to get them to learn their name and to come.
I enjoy fostering because I find it extremely rewarding! I've fostered and found great new homes for dozens of dogs. I get updates on the little guys living their best life years after the adoption. It is great. But I've seen a lot of people burnout or fill up with "foster fails." A lot of people go in with good intentions then get overwhelmed because they're given "too much dog" or an inappropriate fit for their home for their first foster. There's a reason organizations are constantly in need of new fosters.

Think about your boundaries in advance and be very clear on what you can handle when choosing a dog. For your first foster, I would recommend a trained adult dog that has previously lived in a home and was just unlucky enough to land in a shelter. They exist and they often get looked over for puppies or young dogs. I'd avoid young male dogs (9 months-2 years old) - this is when they hit puberty and are dumped for a whole host of unpleasant behaviors such as aggression, marking, humping, extreme fear reactions, etc. If you don't have the experience/confidence/patience to deal with that, I'd skip it. I'd steer away from puppies because they require a lot of care and will probably annoy and/or accidentally hurt your small older dogs or other pets. I'd also avoid bully mixes ("pitbulls") - they are notorious for animal aggression and could put your smaller dogs at high risk. Same with heelers and any other dog with a high drive.

Also understand the dog will probably not be housebroke or leash trained and it'd be good to brush up on your training knowledge. If you have the time and money, a cheap training course at petco or petsmart is great for learning foundational dog training skills you can use for all future dogs.

It is great you're looking into fostering and asking for advice! It can be a lot of fun and these dogs do desperately need to be in home settings learning to be good pets or just chill away from the stress of the shelter. Good luck.
Thank you! This is very, very helpful!
 
Does fostering give you the option to call dibs on one if you fall in love and your heart says "this one is mine"?
I think often, yes.
My Very Good Dog, Luna, was adopted out of foster care. She's had three "forever" homes after her initial surrender and each brought her back within the 30 day takeback period, and then she went to foster as a last resort before being killed. She had a warning on her file in large red letters- "NO OTHER PETS, NO CHILDREN" but my wife brought her home anyway even though we have a million chickens and turkeys plus my wife's beagle.

Luna was very stoic around people- she'd stand and let you open a door or drawer into her without moving, and you'd have to physically push her aside. She was aggressive with the beagle- she wasn't allowed to exit or enter a room before Luna, and she wasn't allowed to eat before Luna started to eat. Not food aggressive, just "me first".

After about six months, Luna became her real self. She's very affectionate, gets along great with the beagle to the point that she allows the beagle to grab her by the throat and roll her over onto her back in order for the beagle to savage her throat. She's still got an insanely high prey drive but pretty much ignores the chickens- as long as she knows we're watching. Her greatest joy is to trot along next to the tractor when I shred the field because she gets to catch and kill field rats as they dart out from in front of the shredder.

Luna is the biggest couch cuddle bug on the planet, she loves to crawl into the couch and lay her head on my thigh as I'm reading.

She's great in public and I cannot imagine why she got a "no children" warning. There was nothing in her file and her foster family said they had no idea what that was about. She loves going to Cabela's and the feed store because she gets to love on people and get pets from strangers.

I'm happy that my wife ignored me when I said please please please don't get another dog without me going along.
Aw, she’s so cute! :love
 
I understand the risks-and I do have problems with making mistakes (self harm, self hate, etc) but I also want to be able to not be so overcome with worry as to not do opportunities that would mean a lot to me.

Thanks for your input, though.
I'm surprised you feel that way! After we had a dog kill one of our chickens after he hopped a fence it has been debilitating. I can't sleep, I can't even go a day without thinking if everything is secure. I assumed this was a universal experience. I will probably never own a hunting breed (specifically a lab) because of it. I am so overcome with worry that I do miss out on things! But I don't think it will ever change. I had never thought of it like that before.
 
I'm surprised you feel that way! After we had a dog kill one of our chickens after he hopped a fence it has been debilitating. I can't sleep, I can't even go a day without thinking if everything is secure. I assumed this was a universal experience. I will probably never own a hunting breed (specifically a lab) because of it. I am so overcome with worry that I do miss out on things! But I don't think it will ever change. I had never thought of it like that before.
I'm sorry. :hugs

I just don't see how a dog would get to my chickens... their fence is 8 ft high and covered. They don't free range because of predators, unfortunately.
 
I'm surprised you feel that way! After we had a dog kill one of our chickens after he hopped a fence it has been debilitating. I can't sleep, I can't even go a day without thinking if everything is secure. I assumed this was a universal experience. I will probably never own a hunting breed (specifically a lab) because of it. I am so overcome with worry that I do miss out on things! But I don't think it will ever change. I had never thought of it like that before.
The dog who Luna replaced, an ancient Golden Retriever/Yellow Lab mix named Spidey, used to fulfill her genetic destiny by catching and bringing to me our ducks and chickens. She never physically harmed any of them but I don't doubt there was mental trauma, lol. I'd put my hand on the chicken, tell her "release" take the bird and put it on the ground. The look on her face when she'd bring the bird told me that this was her true purpose from the beginning of the universe; that all of creation and infinite time had led to the moment she'd completed her mission. Until the next time.
 
I’m ok! Truly. I just never thought of fears holding me back. If a parakeet dies, eh? Sure you can prevent it but such is life.
I'm not saying that your fears hold you back, mine just definitely do. (in person, I get so scared to say anything that I just don't speak, or when I try, I can't)
 

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