@r0bzPut the hand with treats in your knee...?
Chickens will teach you to be PATIENT! Don't try to pet. Set the hand on the knee (with the treats), have a little scattered around you, take out your phone and read something. (I'm not watching you, I'm ignoring you, you don't exist, I've forgotten you're there). If the come up close and take treats from the hand, DON'T TENSE IN EXCITEMENT. Refer back to the parentheses for your actions. It's like making a big deal over something a shy child does...don't make them self conscious about it. Act like it's normal, but don't try to pet. They're nervous. The lack of reaction will calm them and build confidence. I have 1 adult who freaks if I go in the coop near her, so I'm having to work on that. She's a favorite target of Cheetah first thing (he chases until he catches her to the point that she doesn't want to leave the coop for breakfast). I was able to dump a small handful of breakfast up where she was this morning. She freaked and went roost hopping, but came back and ate a little bit before leaving (as I was trying to offer more: mistake, should have let be, pushed too fast).
Note: this is for working with adults
With my silkies I picked them up, put them on my lap and gave them a treat, such as some of the bagel I was eating. It took about 3 times and they we then hopping up onto my lap for treats.
In fact it became a nuisance as they would then hop up on my desk while I was working (office is in barn), and during a Teams meeting the little brat Curly photo-bombed the meeting hahahaha, now they are hopping up stealing my toast, bagel, cookies etc if I don’t be careful!
Of course it’s always easier with youngsters you raise from small ones. I got an adult silkie who was never socialized and is bottom of the pecking order here, she would freak out when I first got her home and would pick her up. But I would just hold her steady and quietly bok-bok-bok to her then when she quieted down I would slowly crouch down to put her down very very gently, but I would hold her steady until she stood quietly, then I would stay there crouched down and slow remove my hands.
The first few times she she bolted off but now she stands for a second or two and calmly walks away. It’s all about desensitizing them, they see that nothing bad happens and they learn that there are usually treats involved!
This Curly being a cheeky girl
She hopped up looking to steal my bagel, we shared until she leapt forward grabbed the last bit I was about to eat and took off - wow she can’t fly worth but sure can jump and run!!!!