We've had many many roos, and only one has been nice. He was a RIR/EE cross, and man that roo was awesome! He NEVER dipped a wing at us, or even thought about spurring anyone. He was gentle with children, even small toddlers. On top of that, he took awesome care of his hens. If anything came up, he flew over in a wing beat to check things out. He would dance when we let his hens out-the only roo I've seen do that. He was huge too, so we were lucky he was gentle.
We could play with his tail feathers, or pick him up, and no fussing. I loved that roo so much. Unfortunately a fellow brat took him out one day.
I was right there, but it happened too fast for me to intervene. So yes, many roos are difficult, and they can be nice 364 days a year, then when you least expect it, WHAM! But once in a while, you find a gem. I'll probably never find one like Goob ever again.
Good luck! Be sure to show your roos who is boss. Don't back down, be aggressive right back to them. Kick them, shove them away from the food, don't let him come near you. Carry a stick and use it! I wish you the best.