Ok. Well her name was changed to Poppy. And I talked to her owner and what he said really p!ssed me off.
First he says "yeah, well I really pull her around a lot"
I look at him like hes lost his mind
He says "well, i am a man and all so I saw on the reins quite a bit".
Went to see her again and just sat back and watched how he handled her. She is scared to death of him.
As for the comments about the tie-down, saddle, and her looking uncomfortable, the tie-down was because he said she tossed her head enough to throw it back and hurt you. well, i took it off for longer this time and she was an angel. she doesnt need it unless we are working on cantering. the bit is way to harsh and i have to keep the reins tight (for now) because she doesnt know how to slow down. and she looked uncomfortable because she was! The gullet at the saddle was was too narrow for her broad back. I'm trying her out again at an arena to see how she loads and is away from home and I am bringing Stormy's saddle because they both have very wide backs.
As for when I get her home, trust on the ground is the first thing. Then finding a nice, gentle bit. Then a nice pad and which saddle fits best. I had no choice as to what tack was used. anyway, yes, at the canter i will use the tie down until i can get her home and work through her fear slowly. she has been badly abused and it becomes more and more apparent the more you see him handle her. she never takes her eyes off him in that "oh my god! its a predator! please dont hurt me again" way. she is beginning to understand i wont hurt her like he did and seemed to enjoy herself last time.
i was leading her around in their arena and she was listening and just following me around. I let go of the reins and she turned and stopped with me. he walks in and she freezes. he practically told on himself....