Oh, can you pen him separate while he goes through the glass mole stage of cockerels? He's at the right age to start being a real jerk for the next two month or so. Nice thing here, Rod Stewart, my top roo, he does a great job at teaching them youngsters to behave... I have lots of missing tails prior to processing. Lol
I got a different take on roos... I don't handle them, I walk purposefully thru my yard, I don't threaten them, I don't man handle the hens so they don't get upset. Tired the hens from my hands, a few will let me pick them up, a few don't. I only man handle when they are on the roost. My boys I leave be for the most part, but they ALL come running for me when they see me, treats usually help.
That said, I will not tolerate a rude cockerel. They raise their hackles any little bit from early on, I know there destination. I continue to raise and feed them just as well, if not better because they are going to feed me. I do have cockerels that have had conniption fits at the age of your guy and totally freak out at being touched. There is no need to feet grab. The biggest part is to subdue the wings while bringing them in close, so you end with an arm around with that hand just under the crop, think football hold. The other hand you can then use to scratch on the keel, stroke the comb and wattles as they become more comfortable. Do that at roost time. Get them used to you this way. But honestly, if you want a lap roo, get a silkie, OR. Keep him with YOU as his only company for a while.
I have Strutter, Rod, Florus, Fritz, Mr. Ed, Ray, Yokie, Blue Boy, Big guy, and Pretty Boy. All are friendly enough, not attack roos, and all serve a function. They have good attitudes(once past the hormonal teenage stage) and they all refuse to be randomly picked up. Off the roost, they are ok though. Jeez... 10 freaking roosters! Didn't realise I had that many till I put all their names down.
As for eating, atleast 10 a year go in the cooker. No reason to keep a bad roo, no reason to kill them to early either 16-18 weeks is ideal. If your going to eat him, fatten jumpy with meat builder and corn.
Nova,
Thanks for your input! Normally, I don't feet grab and confine the wings because I hate getting a face full of wings. It just happened to be the only thing that I could get ahold of without getting into my small quarantine coop (3x3) to get him out. There was actually him and a pullet that were crazy flighty, but the pullet was killed by the neighbors dogs a few weeks ago when they took out half my flock. He has always been "awkward" with all the other chickens except that pullet and had a "peck or be pecked" mentality. If anyone came close they got it, and he would run away. My dominant roo, was also killed in the dog attack, so now Rogue doesn't have anyone to put him in his place. He raises hackles at everyone, and usually my Golden comet girls gang up on him to chill him out. I don't necessarily want a lap roo, but being able to manage to handle even enough to medicate if needed ect would be AMAZING!!!!!! I went down the other night after dark and was able to touch his tail and I got so excited!