I woke up this morning around 3:15 with a Charley horse in my right calf and thigh muscles. As I scurried up to get some weight on my leg, I managed to step on Bella, smack Dino, and fell on top of Loki. All while yelling "GET OUT OF MY WAY!" Obviously, none of the contact was on purpose, but I did manage to assualt all the dogs here in about 3 seconds.
Thankfully I didn't hurt anyone, but I did frighten Loki. She ran over to Mary and just started shaking. I felt horrible. I went and laid down face to face with her and gave her a little butt rub. Poor girl was just trembling, so I baby talked her for a second, and then she rolled over to give me her belly.
I think it's really neat that an animal that we are not able to verbally communicate with can understand us so well. A deaf person can have the same exact experience I do with my dog. I mean within reason. They might deal with a barking dog differently, but on a companion level it's all still love. Love expands beyond the boundaries of verbalization.
Loki is only 3 years old, 9 lbs in weight, and roughly 10" in height. She can only look up to me (physically) and has the visual perspective of a crawling baby. Yet, she knows what's going in with me most of the time. I can frown at her and she'll drop her ears. I can smile and she'll perk on up. I can blow her a kiss and she gets so excited she her feet seem to stammer below her. All without speaking.
I get the concept of body language, the idea of domestication, and that humans have lived with dogs longer that records have been kept. I'm no pet psychologist, but I get why we are able to have a silent communication with dogs. What I have a hard time understanding is why humans can't seem to do the same thing. I mean, we are the only species we can verbally communicate with. Yet, we as a species are rather poor at it.
I have the gift of gab and can talk all day. (ask
@cra8ychix, literally all day capable) I know not everyone can do that, and that's fine. When I say communicate though, I don't just mean to speak. We (again as a species, not talking about anyone in particular) can't seem to understand one another. Is is because we can't communicate? Is it because we can't interoperate? I don't know. What happens to us as adults that makes it so difficult to have open communication?
I got in an arguement yesterday for agreeing with a person... Yeah, I agreed. Then I was accused of patronizing them. Then I was put in a position if defense, for having the same thought process. Then I was hung up on. This is a family member who I know better than pretty much anyone else.
I can fall with 200lbs of weight on a dog the size of a baby, and get forgiveness instantly upon apology. No question of my intent or seriousness. Yet someone who loves me can't seem to accept I'm being truthful when I agree with them. It just doesn't makes sense to me.
Anywho, if you made it to the end, thanks for reading my contemplations on communication.
I love ya faces!