I agree with River Otter. Pigs are somewhat "advanced" pets if you're getting a typical "pet" pig like a potbelly, and the usual "farm pigs" are NOT pets. I would not allow a small child around either of them. Pigs in general know their own size and strength, and their mouths are filled with very sharp teeth. They are generally very gentle, but they are also unpredictable because they don't see well, and a frightened or angry pig is an extremely dangerous animal. They also will see humans as part of their herds, and pigs get into dominance fights to see who goes where in the hierarchies. Even a small pig would easily overpower and seriously hurt a three year old if they decided they needed to do a dominance test.
So I agree with your wife, a pig would not be a good idea. I grew up caring for a 900 pound hog named Portia, and that pig still gives me nightmares 20 years later.
So I agree with your wife, a pig would not be a good idea. I grew up caring for a 900 pound hog named Portia, and that pig still gives me nightmares 20 years later.