I understand the stuff issue. My mom passed 2008.Thank you. It's been a difficult time. The loss of one's mother is obviously never an easy thing under the best of circumstances. Having to deal with her house on our street and the old house/property pretty much absorbed Cheryl and I for a solid year. There was just so much stuff. She obviously never threw anything away, ever. We literally had estate auction companies turn us down because of the shear size of what needed to be liquidated. We would still be dealing with it if I hadn't retired early so I could concentrate on it.
I thought I could deal with my parents stuff nextdoor when I retired in 2012.... Somehow I never got around to it.