i don't know if this is a breed characteristic since i've only had one, but my little Silkie roo is the BEST roo i have. he's very alert, loves to dance for the girls, protects them even from the Big Boys (when they occasionally get rowdy), shares all his treats, and is too small to cause any trouble! he tries to mate sometimes but he just falls off the big girls backs. he is my favorite little man chicken. and he's such a snuggler! maybe something like that would be a good option for you and the girls... maybe even a nice fluffy cochin bantam.