That is good advice and I will remember, I immediately thought that was stupid thing to do. But, the family member that I have been dealing with DID call back right away, and incredibly, now he wants his MIL, who was supposedly the one who let the dogs out, to have a conference call with us so she can "explain what happened and talk about our demands". OK...so now, they want me to rehash this all over again so we can strike some kind of deal??? What???? I am thinking to respond that I don't really want to go over all the vivid details again, but that if they insist on a discussion, that we will have the discussion in person (so that I can bring someone with me to witness and provide input,, and also so that we can record the conversation).
I didn't add on pain and suffering because I read in my research that it wouldn't be allowed, but I can always mention that today, that I didn't add it on, but I will if they keep on persisting in discussing it. Really, I want to try to just move forward.
Most of the damages I asked for were for the loss of my beautiful peahen. She was the best mama, and I had a connection with her...she trusted me completely. Although of course I suffered with the loss of them all. It will take years and a lot of work to get another pea, acclimate it to being here, get it to trust me. I don't really want to get another one, but my peababy needs a friend, he is so lonely...and the adult peas ignore him. And i can't catch him now to rehome him, so he's staying, at least until he grows up.
It is too bad not much credence is given to pain and suffering. I am still so terribly sad about the loss of my birds, it's like opening up a fresh wound every day I go out there to care for them. And pain and suffering should be due for the flock too. They are so jumpy now about potential predators.
I'll see if my lawyer has any other thoughts. It isn't his specialty, but he is aware of what's going on, so I'll see if he has any other recommendations, and share just as a matter of interest.