I know a chicken forum may not be the best place to ask this, but this is the best forum I know, with a lot of participation by people from all walks of life. So I thought I could get opinions from other animal people here. Dog forums can be tricky to navigate...
I'm also not trying to start a debate over the merits of breeding vs adopting from a shelter. That is a moot point here. I am looking at a specific dog breed, and I'm not interested in buying from a show breeder. I want pet quality, but not from a mill. I'm happy to support a reasonable hobby breeder. That point is not up for debate. My concerns are about how do you evaluate if someone advertising is on the up and up, or flat out lying to you.
Two specific questions are:
1. If they insist that because they are a single mom living alone with small daughters, they do not allow any visitors to their home. They will only deliver the puppy or meet you in public. It sounds fishy to me, but is this ever a legitimate claim?
2. If this single mom says she supplements her income by listing puppies for friends and relatives who are not computer savvy, and they give her a percentage of their sales for this service, could that be true, or just a slick way to cover up the fact that there are ads for 10 different dog breeds, under different people, that were obviously written by one person? For this reason alone, I was ready to write her off as a dishonest seller. But when she explained about doing the computer work for people she knows, I wondered if there could be some truth there. Do people actually do that? For real? I find it hard to believe, and yet sort of plausible.
Perhaps I am just too gullible and willing to give people the benefit of a doubt. Her writing is intelligent, and I spoke with her father on the phone, who told me he helps her with all the work and she does the selling. He was very polite and sounded honest. But that could be me, just being willing to believe that people are nice. Then I talk to my daughter about all the things he told me, and she puts a negative spin on everything, so I start to think, Man, he's a really GOOD liar!
They did give me their vet reference, and I plan to check on that Monday morning, but really, his clients are his bread and butter, so I doubt that he would badmouth a client. Not really sure just how to go about asking her vet about her in a proper manner.
BTW, the photos in the ad show a lively, healthy, very happy puppy. You can see that they eyes are clean and clear and with proper expression for the breed. They are not stolen from the internet. In fact, all of her ads have photos taken in a similar manner, and I don't think anyone could steal that many good quality poses of that many puppies. That she did the photography herself I believe. It is the fact that the puppy looks so healthy and happy, that gives me the one hope that this lady could be telling me the truth. Of course, there is always the possibility that I get to the meeting and the dog is no longer in the same shape, or even the same dog, and in that case, the jig would be up and I would walk away.
Honestly, I could just walk away now. But when I find the next ad with potential, and the next and the next, how do I tell the truly honest breeders from the really good liars? This puppy has the potential to be healthy and sound, and I could turn it down on some technicalities about the seller, and then go out and buy from someone else without those technicalities, and end up with a sickly, poor quality puppy down the road.
If anybody is still actually reading at this point, bless your heart! Does anyone know if my two questions should be deal-breakers? Thanks so much!
I'm also not trying to start a debate over the merits of breeding vs adopting from a shelter. That is a moot point here. I am looking at a specific dog breed, and I'm not interested in buying from a show breeder. I want pet quality, but not from a mill. I'm happy to support a reasonable hobby breeder. That point is not up for debate. My concerns are about how do you evaluate if someone advertising is on the up and up, or flat out lying to you.
Two specific questions are:
1. If they insist that because they are a single mom living alone with small daughters, they do not allow any visitors to their home. They will only deliver the puppy or meet you in public. It sounds fishy to me, but is this ever a legitimate claim?
2. If this single mom says she supplements her income by listing puppies for friends and relatives who are not computer savvy, and they give her a percentage of their sales for this service, could that be true, or just a slick way to cover up the fact that there are ads for 10 different dog breeds, under different people, that were obviously written by one person? For this reason alone, I was ready to write her off as a dishonest seller. But when she explained about doing the computer work for people she knows, I wondered if there could be some truth there. Do people actually do that? For real? I find it hard to believe, and yet sort of plausible.
Perhaps I am just too gullible and willing to give people the benefit of a doubt. Her writing is intelligent, and I spoke with her father on the phone, who told me he helps her with all the work and she does the selling. He was very polite and sounded honest. But that could be me, just being willing to believe that people are nice. Then I talk to my daughter about all the things he told me, and she puts a negative spin on everything, so I start to think, Man, he's a really GOOD liar!
They did give me their vet reference, and I plan to check on that Monday morning, but really, his clients are his bread and butter, so I doubt that he would badmouth a client. Not really sure just how to go about asking her vet about her in a proper manner.
BTW, the photos in the ad show a lively, healthy, very happy puppy. You can see that they eyes are clean and clear and with proper expression for the breed. They are not stolen from the internet. In fact, all of her ads have photos taken in a similar manner, and I don't think anyone could steal that many good quality poses of that many puppies. That she did the photography herself I believe. It is the fact that the puppy looks so healthy and happy, that gives me the one hope that this lady could be telling me the truth. Of course, there is always the possibility that I get to the meeting and the dog is no longer in the same shape, or even the same dog, and in that case, the jig would be up and I would walk away.
Honestly, I could just walk away now. But when I find the next ad with potential, and the next and the next, how do I tell the truly honest breeders from the really good liars? This puppy has the potential to be healthy and sound, and I could turn it down on some technicalities about the seller, and then go out and buy from someone else without those technicalities, and end up with a sickly, poor quality puppy down the road.
If anybody is still actually reading at this point, bless your heart! Does anyone know if my two questions should be deal-breakers? Thanks so much!