No, you aren't. There are lots of hand drawn pictures of dubious artistic merit explaining the difference. I may have made one or two myself. There are some better ones floating around so I usually let others post explaing the difference.I can't be the only newer member who keeps reading "well-ventilated but not drafty" and thinks, "huh."
and 2 1/2' is one of those "thumb rules". Its a good starting point, but a lot (like so much else) depends on the rest of the system and the natural air movements createdby your roof design