Sparrow's Chat Thread

[OrpingtonManiac]

do you want kids, and if so, what do you think their:

I dont really know lol

Bedtime should be-

Depends on the age: teenagers 9 to 10 pm

Young kids (younger than 12) from 8 to 9 pm
9 on weekends, 8 on weekdays

screen time should be-

For less than 12, an hour of tv in the evening, 30mins on a phone, anymore is purely educational

how old to wear makeup and use heated hair tool for girls-

If they really want to, less than 13yrs can use kids makeup. More than 13yrs they can use makeup however they want. 15yrs they can use hair tools.

Edit: For formal events, like dance shows, plays etc. they can wear light makeup at any age. For events like weddings, they can use heated hair tools for 13yr olds

dating age should be-

14yrs, but no age diff of more than 3yrs, until theyre 18yrs

type of clothes they could wear and when they could choose their own-

They can choose from when their old enough. Nothing extremely revealing, like short tops or tight skirts until 17yrs

when they can go to unsupervised parties-

If theres an adult i trust there, 13yrs, if not 18yrs

when they could have sleepovers-

Depends on who with and if i trust the parent, but from 10yrs up

GO

 

[Pampered chicken girl]

do you want kids, and if so, what do you think their:

I dunno tbh, yes but I wouldn't be devastated if I didn't

Bedtime should be-

9 year old or less: 8 pm weekdays, 9 pm weekends
10-13: 9 pm weekdays, 10 pm weedends
14-16: 10-11 pm any night
after 16 just be resonable and responsible, at least no later then midnight on weekdays

screen time should be-

1-7, no phone time, 1 hour of tv time plus if we are watching together
8-10, 30 minutes of phone or iPad on mine, 1½ hours tv time plus together
10-12, 1 hour phone time on my phone. 2 hours tv plus together
13-15, 1.5 hour phone, your own phone at 14. Unlimited tv unless its unreasonable
16+ just be reasonable

how old to wear makeup and use heated hair tool for girls-

Lipgloss at any age
Actually doing makeup, 14 but dont go too crazy. Once your 16 do whatever. Heated hair tools at 13 if you want

dating age should be-

14, nothing physical tho abd I have to meet and approve of them. No age gap bigger then 3 years till 18

type of clothes they could wear and when they could choose their own-

I'd let them have an input and help pick clothes forever, but nothing too revealing till 14 or 15 then they can wear crop tops and shorter shorts. I still have to approve

when they can go to unsupervised parties-

16 if theres no adults there, if theres responsible adults 14

when they could have sleepovers-

6 if I trust the parents

GO

As far as I'm concerned when your 16 and can drive abd get a job you can take care of most of your stuff unless the kids just really bad

 

[Pampered chicken girl]

I dunno tbh, yes but I wouldn't be devastated if I didn't

9 year old or less: 8 pm weekdays, 9 pm weekends
10-13: 9 pm weekdays, 10 pm weedends
14-16: 10-11 pm any night
after 16 just be resonable and responsible, at least no later then midnight on weekdays

1-7, no phone time, 1 hour of tv time plus if we are watching together
8-10, 30 minutes of phone or iPad on mine, 1½ hours tv time plus together
10-12, 1 hour phone time on my phone. 2 hours tv plus together
13-15, 1.5 hour phone, your own phone at 14. Unlimited tv unless its unreasonable
16+ just be reasonable

Lipgloss at any age
Actually doing makeup, 14 but dont go too crazy. Once your 16 do whatever. Heated hair tools at 13 if you want

14, nothing physical tho abd I have to meet and approve of them. No age gap bigger then 3 years till 18

I'd let them have an input and help pick clothes forever, but nothing too revealing till 14 or 15 then they can wear crop tops and shorter shorts. I still have to approve

16 if theres no adults there, if theres responsible adults 14

6 if I trust the parents

As far as I'm concerned when your 16 and can drive abd get a job you can take care of most of your stuff unless the kids just really bad

Also for screen time that's only for fun stuff, educational is however much they need.

 

[Pampered chicken girl]

Would yall do phone checks?

I personally wouldn't unless I have a large incentive to, I think kids need privacy but I want them to have a relationship with me where they can be open if something is going on and talk to me

 

[OrpingtonManiac]

Would yall do phone checks?

I personally wouldn't unless I have a large incentive to, I think kids need privacy but I want them to have a relationship with me where they can be open if something is going on and talk to me

I wouldn’t, unless i was concerned something bad was going on. I also want them to trust me, and to be able to tell me things

 

[Pampered chicken girl]

1-6 7:00
6-9 8:00
9-12 9:00
13-16 10:30
16+ before 12:00

I wanna also mention that my kids will be allowed to stay up a bit later on fridays and saturdays

1-6 tv at night but nothing else
6-10 i would let them have a tablet and around 2 hours
10-15 a phone with limited screen time and limited google uses
15+ unlocked phone

Another personal thing is i will never look through my kid's phone, that trust is important to me and i don't want them to hide it. I would make a rule that if they get someone's number that i get theirs's also or their parent's

12

13

modest no ripped jeans etc until 11
11+ anything except skimpy or cropped tops
14+ nonskimpy crop tops

17
Another thing is they will not be allowed to drink alcohol but if they do i won't be mad, bc i know it happens and i want them to trust me enough that if they do they will call me to pick them up and not try and drive

7-8 depends on maturity

I like this too

 

[Pampered chicken girl]

What about social media? I'd allow it at 15 but I have to be following them and they follow me

 

[OrpingtonManiac]

What about social media? I'd allow it at 15 but I have to be following them and they follow me

No insta or tiktok until 18. They could have their own Youtube account at 13yrs old. I dont know any others lol

 

[Addicted To Chickens]

Would yall do phone checks?

I personally wouldn't unless I have a large incentive to, I think kids need privacy but I want them to have a relationship with me where they can be open if something is going on and talk to me

I’d personally want them to have flip phones instead of IPhones, because they’re less distracting imo.
I would probably let the flip phones be connected to the internet to some extent, but I wouldn’t check their phones or accounts at all. In case of emergency, then probably yes.

 

[Addicted To Chickens]

No insta or tiktok until 18. They could have their own Youtube account at 13yrs old. I dont know any others lol

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