When our children were small my dh was injured, required surgery. Thankfully the needed treatment was done despite us not having insurance, but he wasn't working and we got behind on our bills. We didn't have a phone so the collectors couldn't call us. About a year later dh is working, and we got a phone (landline). I paid a little more to have the phone number unpublished, not available by any method. I got a call from a bill collector, and he chuckled when I asked how he got my number. It turned out that he called my mother-in-law, and gave her a sob story about being an old friend, and wheedled our private number out of her. He was proud of his dishonesty.I knew a lady who worked for a collection agency. She bragged about calling people at their workplace and harassing them. That is against the law, but the collection agents don't care. They get off on breaking the law trying to collect any money from anyone they can. And they don't care if it destroys people in the process. Extended family members were fair game for her. IMHO, it takes a special kind of abnormal mind to succeed in that collection business. I could not do it.
We eventually paid off all our debts, but I still remember how nasty that debt collector was. I couldn't do that job.
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