I just need to go on a lil rant here!!!!!
Me and my mother have never had a good relationship. She was never "motherly". She had my brother at 15 and me at 18, has been married 6 times and would move off with her new husband and leave us to be raised by our grandparents. I have been married for 16 years and have 4 children and absolutely refuse to take parenting advice from someone that never raised their own children. I have been told by this woman that she didn't want me and only had me because my father insisted on having another kid, she was perfectly happy with only my brother. Also that the reason that she doesn't ever get on my brother's case is because "he was a good kid and you weren't". We have never been able to be together long without her wanting to attack some aspect of my life.
Soooooooo.........last Friday she wanted to take my son fishing and was substituting at his school. Instead of asking me first she asks him and wants him to ask me. I told him no he couldn't go because he has failing grades in 3 classes due to zeros for not turning work in. Friday I also had to go to the doctor because I've been having health issues, heart palpatations, fatigue, etc..... well my blood pressure was high and my heart rate was 106, he thought he heard a heart murmur and so I have to go in for an ECG and see a cardiologist. That afternoon she calls me and I tell her why he can't go and she just starts going off on how that's stupid and it's the end of school so his grades shouldn't matter, blah, blah, blah. I calmly tell her "I am not going to listen to this, I've been to the doctor today and I my blood pressure is high and my heart rate is high" she then proceeds to scream at me and tell me that my blood pressure is high because I'm hateful. I had to just calmly say "yeah I'm the hateful one but I'm not the one screaming". Oh this woman drives me insane!! Has anyone ever completely cut ties with a parent because they're nuts?
Me and my mother have never had a good relationship. She was never "motherly". She had my brother at 15 and me at 18, has been married 6 times and would move off with her new husband and leave us to be raised by our grandparents. I have been married for 16 years and have 4 children and absolutely refuse to take parenting advice from someone that never raised their own children. I have been told by this woman that she didn't want me and only had me because my father insisted on having another kid, she was perfectly happy with only my brother. Also that the reason that she doesn't ever get on my brother's case is because "he was a good kid and you weren't". We have never been able to be together long without her wanting to attack some aspect of my life.
Soooooooo.........last Friday she wanted to take my son fishing and was substituting at his school. Instead of asking me first she asks him and wants him to ask me. I told him no he couldn't go because he has failing grades in 3 classes due to zeros for not turning work in. Friday I also had to go to the doctor because I've been having health issues, heart palpatations, fatigue, etc..... well my blood pressure was high and my heart rate was 106, he thought he heard a heart murmur and so I have to go in for an ECG and see a cardiologist. That afternoon she calls me and I tell her why he can't go and she just starts going off on how that's stupid and it's the end of school so his grades shouldn't matter, blah, blah, blah. I calmly tell her "I am not going to listen to this, I've been to the doctor today and I my blood pressure is high and my heart rate is high" she then proceeds to scream at me and tell me that my blood pressure is high because I'm hateful. I had to just calmly say "yeah I'm the hateful one but I'm not the one screaming". Oh this woman drives me insane!! Has anyone ever completely cut ties with a parent because they're nuts?