topochico225
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Hi friends!
I posted another thread a couple weeks ago about reinforcing potty training with my 2yo female Blue Heeler rescue Cora, and thankfully that's resolved. However, we're now starting to see more of her "herding" behaviors coming out.
For backstory, I live with my DB and DM in an apartment, and this dog is primarily my responsibility, but everyone is happy to help with her. I adopted Cora at a shelter adoption event here about a month ago, and it's been as smooth as rescuing a dog can be. She's very shy but well behaved, very quiet, very much a couch potato, and is very bonded to me. Don't misunderstand me - I love that! I love having a little buddy all the time. However, she's become not quite aggressive towards my family, but will "herd" them by just putting her teeth around their hands/wrists with no pressure. Her favorite place in the world is my bed, and she spends most of the day (by her own choice) flopped on their with her fox toy. Whenever my family comes into my room, she will normally let them pet her, but then if they touch my bed next to her/do anything other than casual pets she'll do the herding thing. I know it's her way of telling someone to back off, and hey, more power to ya for having boundaries, girl, but it's inching towards aggression with my DB.
Like I mentioned before, Cora is a rescue, so we don't know her full story. The vet agreed that it seems like she's had puppies before (she will be spayed in a little over a month - shelter terms) and from her behavior with the men vs the women that she's met (and our experience with abused rescue dogs before) it seems that she was abused by a man at some point in her life. DB favors dogs that he can just horseplay with like a puppy, and I've had to explain to him many times that that behavior does not make her feel loved on, just annoyed, so he can't be too surprised when she tells him to back off.
This morning, I wasn't home and DB said that he came into my room to greet her after he got home and she snarled and growled at him to back off. He shut her in my room after that, and I got home about 10 minutes after it happened. I let her out and took her for a walk to get some energy out. She had her introductory visit to out vet today, which went just fine; she was a model of doggy behavior. She's been flopped on my bed all evening after that as usual, and DM came in about 10 minutes ago to talk to me then pet the dog before she left. The difficult part about this is that these moments happen so fast that I don't see exactly what happens in the moment. She said that Cora did the herding thing as she pulled back from petting her and stood by my bed, which was odd because Cora was happy to be pet - she even laid her head in DM's hands.
I guess what I'm asking is to what degree is this behavior normal of a herding dog? I know some of it is, that's just how they are, but what amount of it can be "corrected" or just influenced by training? I'm happy to do whatever it takes to make sure my dog is happy and well-adjusted to life.
Thank you for tolerating my infodump, BYCers
I posted another thread a couple weeks ago about reinforcing potty training with my 2yo female Blue Heeler rescue Cora, and thankfully that's resolved. However, we're now starting to see more of her "herding" behaviors coming out.
For backstory, I live with my DB and DM in an apartment, and this dog is primarily my responsibility, but everyone is happy to help with her. I adopted Cora at a shelter adoption event here about a month ago, and it's been as smooth as rescuing a dog can be. She's very shy but well behaved, very quiet, very much a couch potato, and is very bonded to me. Don't misunderstand me - I love that! I love having a little buddy all the time. However, she's become not quite aggressive towards my family, but will "herd" them by just putting her teeth around their hands/wrists with no pressure. Her favorite place in the world is my bed, and she spends most of the day (by her own choice) flopped on their with her fox toy. Whenever my family comes into my room, she will normally let them pet her, but then if they touch my bed next to her/do anything other than casual pets she'll do the herding thing. I know it's her way of telling someone to back off, and hey, more power to ya for having boundaries, girl, but it's inching towards aggression with my DB.
Like I mentioned before, Cora is a rescue, so we don't know her full story. The vet agreed that it seems like she's had puppies before (she will be spayed in a little over a month - shelter terms) and from her behavior with the men vs the women that she's met (and our experience with abused rescue dogs before) it seems that she was abused by a man at some point in her life. DB favors dogs that he can just horseplay with like a puppy, and I've had to explain to him many times that that behavior does not make her feel loved on, just annoyed, so he can't be too surprised when she tells him to back off.
This morning, I wasn't home and DB said that he came into my room to greet her after he got home and she snarled and growled at him to back off. He shut her in my room after that, and I got home about 10 minutes after it happened. I let her out and took her for a walk to get some energy out. She had her introductory visit to out vet today, which went just fine; she was a model of doggy behavior. She's been flopped on my bed all evening after that as usual, and DM came in about 10 minutes ago to talk to me then pet the dog before she left. The difficult part about this is that these moments happen so fast that I don't see exactly what happens in the moment. She said that Cora did the herding thing as she pulled back from petting her and stood by my bed, which was odd because Cora was happy to be pet - she even laid her head in DM's hands.
I guess what I'm asking is to what degree is this behavior normal of a herding dog? I know some of it is, that's just how they are, but what amount of it can be "corrected" or just influenced by training? I'm happy to do whatever it takes to make sure my dog is happy and well-adjusted to life.
Thank you for tolerating my infodump, BYCers
