Sometimes, "difficult conversations" are necessary. Most of the time, if you're polite and explain your reasons, people listen.
Good points, both of you. Not a problem any more, thanks!Playing devil's advocate here. Sometimes, letting the child eat in the pew, is the only way that the parent can even make it to church. They have to bring their child with them and to keep the child quiet, they feed them a little something, this is also so that they can pay attention to the sermon. Now, that does not give the parent an excuse to let their child run around, make a mess, or make noise. And water should be the only thing they are allowed to drink. But remember, the children are the future of the church, if they don't feel welcome, they won't go to church when they are adults